A few simple tips to succeed in creating good friendships:
1. LEARN TO RECOGNIZE OPPORTUNITIES
Every day we miss chances to befriend someone. Have the courage to take small steps when opportunities arise. Instead of forcing yourself to talk to your friendly neighbor, invite him for a cup of coffee and get to know him. Instead of leaving a party without getting the number of the pretty girl you’ve been talking to all night, ask her out and add her on Facebook to ask her out sometime. You will be surprised how many potential friends are already in your environment.
These signs never betray their friends
2. FOLLOW YOUR INTERESTS
Joining a group, club or class is an effective way to meet people. Teaming up for a common activity, project, or goal is an experience that can foster bonding and closer relationships. You probably remember that when you were little, it was the games in the street and at school that made you friends. Pursue a challenge or skill that excites you, because then you’ll have a good time and feel more comfortable striking up a conversation.
3. ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE VULNERABLE
It can be scary trying to find friends. What if the dump is rejected? It is necessary to be vulnerable to some extent when trying to form a friendship. Simply put, if you stay away and don’t lower your barriers, it won’t help you. Sharing more personal stories or plans with the other person is an easy way to help build rapport and trust.
Why do we need friends?
4. USE SOCIAL NETWORKS – BUT NOT ONLY
Social media can be extremely useful for forming friendships in adulthood. There are a variety of apps that can be a good starting point, as well as platforms where you can sign up for local activities and events. But know that social media is no substitute for personal contact. The more we rely on apps, the less practice we have in the conversations and experiences that truly allow us to form close friendships, as opposed to superficial connections.
5. SIGN UP FOR AN EXTRA-CURRICULAR ACTIVITY
A study reveals that when you sign up for a dance, singing or even debate club, it has an ice-breaker effect, helping strangers bond and get to know each other. Find what you enjoy and do it with friends.
The signs that have no friends
6. DON’T PUT TOO MUCH PRESSURE ON PEOPLE
As we age, our friendships inevitably change. According to a 2016 study, our friendships peak at age 25. When trying to make friends as an adult, psychologists advise not to be too pushy or pushy about the new relationships you make and not to expect too much from one person.
7. ASK QUESTIONS AND LISTEN
A simple tip is to ask tactical and probing questions and listen actively! This doesn’t mean you have to interrogate people like a detective, but showing a genuine interest in a person and listening carefully to their answers can help you make more meaningful and healthy connections.
