In order to create a healthy relationship with a potential partner, the following three things must be discussed: dreams, fetishes and childhood. This is the opinion of sexologist Todd Baratz, the Daily Mail reported.
According to the specialist, first of all, childhood should be discussed: The only relationships that are directly related are the relationships with our parents and partners. The more you know about each other’s past, the better you will understand the triggers, the ways to deal with conflicts and thus learn to reconcile, Baratz explains.
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In addition, the discussion should also affect relationships with former partners: What worked, what didn’t, problems, lessons learned, knowing the past is important to create future relationships, warns the specialist.
Baratz is confident that it is also worth discussing the preferences in the manifestation of love, closeness and care – from romantic words to sexual fetishes, erotic fantasies and taboos. It is important to honestly discuss the triggers and frustrations inherent in the person in the past and present and to encourage the partner’s willingness to share the problems, suggests the sexologist.
He also reminds us of the importance of discussing plans for the future: Share your dreams while you sleep, about lofty and grandiose dreams of professional success. The plans for five, ten, fifteen or twenty years ahead.
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